Episode 2: true meaning of love

A lot of people ask this question, how do I recognize and maintain true romantic love?

So, here are my response to such questions. Romantic love is more than just attraction or fleeting emotions. It requires effort, understanding, and continuous growth. Here I have highlighted few points that will help you to recognize and sustain a meaningful romantic relationship:

1. Recognizing True Romantic Love

• Emotional Security – You feel safe expressing your thoughts, fears, and dreams without judgment.

• Mutual Respect – Both partners value each other’s opinions, boundaries, and individuality.

• Deep Trust – There is no need for constant suspicion or jealousy because honesty is the foundation.

• Consistent Effort – Love is shown through actions, not just words or occasional grand gestures.

• Healthy Communication – You can discuss problems openly and resolve conflicts without fear or hostility.

• Long-Term Vision – Both partners see a future together and work towards shared goals.

2. How to Maintain True Romantic Love

a. Communication & Understanding: listen actively, not just to respond but to truly understand. Express feelings openly without blame or criticism and have regular check-ins about emotions, needs, and expectations.

b. Keeping the Spark Alive:

Continue dating each other, ensure to surprise each other with thoughtful gestures, try out new activities together to build excitement and deeper connection. Make sure to maintain physical and emotional intimacy through touch, affection, and deep conversations.

c. Building Trust & Emotional Support

• Be reliable and consistent in your actions.
• Encourage each other’s growth—support career, personal, and emotional development.

• Stand by each other during tough times rather than running away.

d. Handling Conflicts Maturely

• Focus on the problem, not attacking the person.
• Take breaks when needed but always come back to resolve the issue.
• Compromise and find solutions that benefit both partners.

e. Giving Each Other Space

• Healthy love allows room for individuality, encourage personal interests and friendships.
• Avoid excessive control or dependency; true love is not possessive.

Lastly, but also the most important pray for God's grace, wisdom and guidance in order to take your relationship to the next level. And that's the end of this episode.